Pastoral Ministry

Pastoral Tips for Young Pastors: Navigating the Journey with Grace

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Embarking on the journey of pastoral ministry is both exciting and challenging. As a young pastor, you are entrusted with the responsibility of shepherding God’s flock, nurturing their souls, and leading them on the path of spiritual growth. It’s a role filled with immense joy and profound moments, but it can also be accompanied by moments of uncertainty, doubt, and awkwardness.

Here are five pastoral tips that can guide and empower young pastors as they navigate the rewarding yet challenging path of ministry.


1. Get comfortable living in the land of the awkward because you’re going to spend the rest of your ministry there.

As a pastor, you will find yourself in countless situations that require tact, sensitivity, and understanding. Engaging with diverse personalities, comforting the grieving, or addressing sensitive topics can often feel awkward and uncomfortable. Embrace the awkwardness as an opportunity for growth and learning. Remember that even Jesus faced awkward moments during His ministry, and it is in those moments that we often experience the greatest breakthroughs and connections.

2. Learn to listen to the Spirit; He will lighten the sphere of your care ministry.

Amid the demands and responsibilities of pastoral ministry, it is crucial to cultivate a deep relationship with the Holy Spirit. He is your guide, comforter, and counselor. Take time to pray, meditate on Scripture, and seek His guidance. The Spirit will impart wisdom and discernment, helping you navigate the complexities of pastoral care. By listening attentively to His leading, you will gain insights that go beyond human understanding and be better equipped to serve and minister effectively.

3. Learn to minister not just for but with Christ.

While it is natural to rely on your own abilities and strengths, remember that true ministry happens when we partner with Christ. Seek His heart and align your desires with His. Cultivate a vibrant prayer life, constantly seeking His guidance and direction. As you surrender your plans and ambitions to Him, you will witness the transformative power of Christ working through you. Ministry becomes an extraordinary journey of co-laboring with the Creator of the universe, and lives will be forever impacted by the work of His hands.

4. Accept the fact that, at some point, you will make a wrong decision, let someone down, or say something you regret.

Perfection is an unattainable goal, even for pastors. As a young pastor, you may experience moments of self-doubt or guilt when you make mistakes or fall short of expectations. However, it is essential to remember that mistakes are opportunities for growth and humility. When you stumble, seek forgiveness, both from those you may have wronged and from God. Embrace the lessons learned and use them to cultivate wisdom and empathy as you continue to serve.


Proverbs 28:13 (NIV): “Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.”


5. Burn strongly in your heart for Christ and His kingdom, and the wet blankets of criticism will burn off.

Criticism and negativity are an unfortunate part of any leadership role, and pastoral ministry is no exception. As a young pastor, it is crucial to develop a deep passion for Christ and His kingdom that surpasses external validation. Cultivate a heart that is rooted in the love of God and the calling He has placed on your life. When your passion for Christ burns brightly, it will illuminate your ministry, attracting others to the transformative power of the gospel. Criticism will fade in comparison to the joy and fulfillment that comes from serving God wholeheartedly.


Being a young pastor is an extraordinary calling that requires dedication, humility, and a deep love for God and His people. Embrace the awkwardness, listen to the Spirit, minister with Christ, learn from mistakes, and burn passionately for the kingdom.

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Steve Tillis

Senior Pastor

Steve Tillis serves as Senior Pastor of Briarlake Church in the Metro Atlanta area. He has been pastoring for more than 20 years both in the U.S. and overseas. He earned his Ph.D. in Applied Theology from SEBTS and is an adjunct professor for Leavell College/NOBTS. He enjoys spending time with his wife and two sons, as well as mentoring young pastors.

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